don’t try to make a happy baby happier

there is a very specific fumble that comes from messing with a baby who is perfectly content and we have all done it. the baby was just sitting there delighted by something and then we decide to upgrade the situation and now the baby is crying. it’s just a really good lesson that when things are good, leave em be. not everything has to be optimized and not every calm moment needs a lil upgrade. if things are going well, enjoyyyyyy! this is oddly enough harder than it sounds but is important